Blogging conference: Surviving the despatriamento
The Ciça of 'A papachibé and his mare' came with a proposal for a conference on blogging and despatriado be happy with their decision and called all the blogger in a similar situation, not just the country but despatriado 'region' (people who change from one state to the other, mainly in Brazil) to address the issue. The idea is to help each other and with the advice to do to feel happier and more 'at home' away from home.
I quote:
You wanted brazuca and despatriado somewhere on this planet (valley from another planet, since the blog, or at least post on this blogging comes in Portuguese), tell us your secret of survival despatriamento. We want to hear your tips on how to deal with entreveiros of a country, people, culture and different habits and even strangers to us AND BE HAPPY.
Before you start reading my portion I notice: you do not agree with me. In fact, if you do not agree, I'll love to hear why in the comments.
I use strong language and popular. Because I like it. Okay?
Do not short?
Squeeze the x in the top of your window.
Enjoy 
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From where comes the stereotype.
For a long time I've spent half resentful of disgust and displeasure of some Brazilian living in these parts, but never crashed on me the fundamental difference between my situation and the 'friends' reclamões: most do not have any bond with the country they esculacha while I and many others are married to a British and / or have children born here. Sure, sure, and obviously has exceptions. But in my case, however, was most unfortunately.
Most who complain, do not see the UK as 'home' but a place that will make them in one way or another, to solve the problem $ $ left behind.
Nothing against, quite the contrary. Each one does what has to be done the way you see fit as long as it does not interfere in my life.
What I am against is spit on the plate you eat and the followers of 'the end justifies the means'.
And that's where the problem is these two things: the stigma and the label they transferred to us that has nothing to do with the matter and pay the duck.
The interference in my life as a foreigner in the house of another.
Yes, me and thousands who do not share the idea of someone or the means Ciclano uses and abuses pra ter 'his return'.
We ended up being printed with the same label.
Bitter on my part? BOTA BITTER THEREIN.
How many of us have come across situations where we are compared to a fellow FDP have never seen more fat, but that, besides being born on the same land that their is a notoriously shameless? Go ahead, spew ai: 'Brazil is all the same'.
My tips:
1) Buddy, do not do to others as you would have them do to you. Cool you're in a foreign land and have the arrogance to think they are all idiots and you are with your fuckin 'Brazilian way' and mischief, will 'put to break'. And fuck you know? Here nobody knows you and you will soon bite the mule. Good reason to mess up the bandstand? I question.
Legal, but I and others that carry the blue passport will stay here and pay for their lack of character and integrity.
So queridão, have a little consideration and when you clean your ass, do not rub the paper on the wall right?
2) Living here tá difficult? Here's all a shit? Here are all a shit?
Come on, the situation it going easy for anyone, not pros here. Then it's time to evaluate your posture and decide: sink or swim. Where is your happiness and peace of mind? Here in Brazil, the moon, the PQP?
Decides there and talk to us. Whatever you decide, good luck.
3) Do not generalize. Here are people who are prejudiced and tired of foreigners as there are people who still have hope and give you a credit.
Why is it that prejudice increasing tá?
Have you taken a look around? Has more British alien registration that right? Well, then it is atoa they are upset.
But as we are good people, we will show that we're here, we are more a benefit than a burden. We will not screw up. Let us show that we will be one (and we!) Happy to be neighbors. How? If integrating with the community, communicating with colleagues in the language that they understand and know the land where you chose to spend [a time of, or] his life.
You will notice one day that although the UK is being "colonized", they will look at you and say you're different, want to be part, you are well. And it is worth every day of sacrifice out of our country, away from family, right?
So whatever your situation (married to alien registration, just passing through, or for financial reasons), keep in mind that whatever you do here will reflect not only on you as a person but a nation.
You are the one shot pebble in the lake, and ripples in the water are their attitudes. Noted that as stone shook an entire lake?
So do right!
Consideration, honesty and responsibility. This is the beginning of a happy life.
Wherever you are.
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 36 times.
UUUUUAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUU slap in the face ... huh mana?? God bless me and Nazica ... but do not expect anything less from you my pretty!!
And one very important aspect you put there: RECOGNITION. Be recognized as "different from other" worth every sacrifice.
Ciça last blog post was ... Des / ex / multi / Patrie and happy - Airsoft conference!
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Hi
I loved your post! Hilarious and wonderful!
I loved this point: the stigma and the label they transferred to us that has nothing to do with the matter and pay the duck. "Unfortunately it is true ...
Bjs
Paula was last blog post ... SURVIVING THE DESPATRIAMENTO II
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Very good your text.
Not know your blog, came across the Cica, the blogging conference.
I'll link on my back here, I'm sure it will be useful for many people.
Kiss
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Very good! everything's been said, does not require further comments .. Parabens ...
Bjs and beautiful Sunday
Marcia
Marcia was last blog post ... SURVIVING THE DESPATRIAMENTO
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 12 times.
Carola Ah, you said something that could not be better, what others are bad is what brand. If he comes and makes a nonsense, the rest coming from bobagento will be taxed.
It would be nice if everyone would know!
Beijossss
Laura was last blog post ... Despatriado, but happy!
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You already commented 7 times. A little more and you can come and eat cake at home.
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You already commented 2 times. A little more and you can come and eat cake at home.
Very good, muié. It sucks even. But we do not think the other or in Brazil, the country think of others? The exceptions to get fucked, so they think.
Kiss.
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 22 times.
Ih, Carola, walked treading on your corn, was it? Get low that the woman is angry rs! Also do not like people reclamona, one time or another come on, but make life a regret because it has Guarana Antarctica and chicken drumstick on the corner, does not it. Bjs
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Carola, I loved your post about Despatriamento!
Our actions, right or wrong, are valued as acts of an entire nation, so let's be honest and integrated, it will be better ourselves!
Beijo grande!
Caca last blog post was ... Blogagem Collective: "Surviving the despatriamento and being happy"
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 45 times.
Hi Carol.
I really enjoyed your post. I think if the person does not fit in and be living with the spirit of "we are better" or "but in Brazil it is not," she will not be happy anywhere.
I think the first thing is to learn the local language. I've heard stories of Singapore who are abroad and how to live with only Brazilian, never interested in learning the language right nor the customs of the country.
To me this is absurd. Also without the language is impossible to get a job at least decent.
Bjs.
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Elvira
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You hit a nerve very well.
A abraco garnde
georgia Aegerter last blog post was ... Despatriados but happy!
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Hello,
I found your blog by blog Luciana Haland.
I like your post, I agree 100% with you.
Tb'm a despatriada, live nine years in Japan. I came to a Ph.D., I finished, I got a job to the area and ate here today, the first two years and compared complained very much, but then I saw that do not lead to anything and will not make me happier. Today to super happy and well adapted here. I Br, after it was born, I created it, but I adapted very well here in the land of the rising sun.
Here tb has many Brazilians who came only to be raising money and even living more than 10 years need to interpret for everything and not live without a shop of Brazilian products. (pq not understand paying so absurdity to buy Brazilian detergent or chocolate milk has a similar here!)
So eh
Bjs
Celina
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Girl,
I was your fa. And I thought my post was aggressive. I agree 100% with the things you said, I hate whiny little nigga that is all the time getting into the wood.
My post:
http://iamhappynotcrazy.blogspot.com/2009/10/despatriada-mas-feliz-blogagem-coletiva.html
bjs
Hilda was last blog post ... Despatriada, but happy! 2
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 43 times.
I like this way of writing and Carola short, thick and clear
Vc tá certÃssima to mention that the brazucas and other foreigners are predrinhas the lake.
Parabéns amiga!
Vivi was last blog post ... Rio Loves you! 2016
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 10 times.
Yeah, Carola! I loved the 'do not rub the paper on the wall', hehehe
And living awareness, respect and live in your country or outside!
Kisses, Angie
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 12 times.
Carola
my present chegouuuuuuuuuuuuuuu !!!!!!!!
ja was almost giving the postman a plecos! heheheh
put pictures tomorrow! I loved everything and I was super happy to see that it was you who did!! Thank you, I really !!!!!
Beijosss
Laura was last blog post ... Despatriado, but happy!
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Queen of the Kingdom.
@ Laura, eeeeeeeeee: gift:! We took huh? This pq sent 21 days! And look what I found q to be rapid, because poxa, just across the Channel right?
* love *
Glad you liked everything. I made a lot of love
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Already the Kingdom! Commented 10 times.
Surely this is a very interesting and will help many people who're thinking of changing. I filled the bag of many expatriate, here in Germany and outside, before moving to Heidelberg. And they were wonderful, gave me a lot right information and helped me make the decision. Came well aware of what life was like here.
Now the life of an expatriate is not easy ... Standing and walking to meet so many people who complain here, in Brazil ... but there are people who love to complain about everything even.
My motto is "let life take me ..." and always say, everything has its advantages and disadvantages, here and in Brazil.
Dear, thanks! Bjks
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I loved your post and know how is the life of despatriado the UK. Here in Canada is different, the Canadians are not so averse to immigrants as the British seem to be. It is interesting to see this issue from the standpoint of Brazilians in various corners of the world.
Ana was last blog post ... Found on the Internet - October 7
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Queen of the Kingdom.
@ Ana, I think the difference between the Canadian and British perceptions of the immigrant is that Canada is a country that was formed by immigrants enqto the UK has never been a colony of anyone but here is just a small island, where you can not pra accommodate all immigrants + seekers. I think that is worrying other sites and unfortunately manifests itself in an aversion to some. This is where lies the question of being labeled.
Q None of those are against immigration, never took time to ask me (or ask) what is my (or several people) situation.
But do what, keep moving: up:
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You already commented 6 times. A little more and you can come and eat cake at home.
Pois eh my friend, the best and be happy and live a day after the outro.xxx
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